Friday, November 18, 2005

Waiting for Mr. or Ms. Right May Lead to Waiting Too Long and A Less Fulfilling Marriage

USA Today reported yesterday a recent survey indicates that "the odds for a happy marriage may favor those who tie the knot between the ages of 23 and 27".

I have seen many people who have overlooked the better mate within their face in order to search in vain for someone that they would live happily ever after with.

It almost seems counterintuitive in that a person has to compare their present choice of mate with their past relationships and make a decision based upon the opposing questions "does this person make me happier than anyone else has within my past?" versus "is there anyone else out there that has the ability to make me happier?"

The questions seems to be the same question when in reality there is a fine nuance that leads each question in opposite directions.

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